I started my blog to share things about my kids with my family and friends. I never intended for it to take the path it did. Don't get me wrong, I have had a great time writing product reviews and offering giveaways, and I am grateful for the experiences I have had because of this blog, but over the past several months, it has turned into a job, and I don't want another job.
For the most part, I don't let this blog interfere with the limited time I have available with my children. Since I do have a full time job outside the home, I don't see my kids that much during the week, so I have to make every minute count. Therefore, I don't get online until they go to sleep, which is usually close to 9PM. Between writing blog posts, promoting giveaways, trying to visit and support other bloggers and finding ways to get traffic to my site, I usually don't go to bed until well after midnight, and then I am back up at 5AM to start my day. I have been doing this for way too long, and I just can't do it any longer.
A couple weeks ago, I decided to just quit. I had resolved to take my blog back to just a personal blog and get rid of the business side of it. I knew I would miss it, and that isn't what I REALLY wanted, but it was the one thing that I could easily cut out of my life. I knew once the giveaways ended that my traffic would tank, and I was OK with that.
Then something happened. A dinner with friends, to be exact. One of my friends was talking about how she really wanted to do product reviews, but didn't want to start a blog from scratch and go through everything it takes to build something up. Without even thinking about it I blurted out "Hey, do you want to write for my blog?" And just like that, I added a writer here.
I am really excited about this! I really do enjoy the "business" side of the blog, and with Jennifer's help, I will be able to keep that going. I will still be able to do what I love, which is write about my kids and issues that are on my mind, and I will also be able to work with great companies to bring you all product reviews and giveaways. I will let Jennifer introduce herself when she feels comfortable with the Blogger interface and gets everything figured out, but she will be writing most of the product reviews from here on out.
I still have a lot to figure out, so for right now, I'm just going to see how this goes. I'm not going to worry about stats. I'm not going to worry about how to bring traffic here. I am just going to let things happen. I am thinking positively about all of this, and I hope it works out. If nothing else, at least I will be able to get more sleep.
I would love it if you all would take a quick survey for me. Most of the questions are generic questions about demographics, but I have added a few to provide me with some important information about how you came across this site, why you are here, and whether or not you plan to visit again. It will only take a minute of your time, and I would really appreciate it! CLICK HERE to get started.
I would also appreciate any comments about this blog, good or bad. Is there something you like? Is there something you don't like? For the most part, I do what I want here, and there is really no rhyme or reason to what I do. I would still love your feedback, though, because without readers, this blog doesn't really have much of a point. If there is something I can do to improve your experience here, I want to know about it.
Thank you all for your continued visits, and all of your support. I look forward to another fun year here at The Life of Rylie...and Bryce too!
























18 comments:
YAYAYAY!!! I think this is going to be a great thing for the both of you. So excited to see what 2012 brings!
The thing I love most about your blog are the personal stories and the way you face challenges that other mother's go through as well. I enjoy the product reviews, but most don't apply to me so they are no big deal. I enter giveaways occasionally, but usually don't participate in them because you can get so caught up in them and worry about making sure you click every link and share everywhere to get the most entries. So I read your blog because I enjoy your writing. I love meeting your family and just learning about the day to day.
The thing I love most about your blog are the personal stories and the way you face challenges that other mother's go through as well. I enjoy the product reviews, but most don't apply to me so they are no big deal. I enter giveaways occasionally, but usually don't participate in them because you can get so caught up in them and worry about making sure you click every link and share everywhere to get the most entries. So I read your blog because I enjoy your writing. I love meeting your family and just learning about the day to day.
awww that sounds like a great plan! i took the survey too but i just wanted to say that i'm SO excited for you. i hope you can get more rest and enjoy life with your gorgeous kids even more now.
I filled out your survey but it was missing a few options for me. First of all, my reason for initially visiting wasn't there (e.g. your awesomeness) and second of all, why I continue to visit wasn't there either (e.g. your awesomeness).
But hey, that's okay. I think you know that I'll be reading whatever it is gets posted. You rock, Mama! :)
I took the survey! I love your site! I subscribe to so many and yours is one of my favs!
Hey LeeAnn
I'm so pleased to read this post. While I do enjoy giveaways from time to time I loved ur blog before and would love to read about just you and the fam.
Look forward to reading!
Wow I guess I never knew how much work went into blogging and I always just enjoyed reading thing on your blog about the kids and just everyday issues I guess it makes me feel like I am not alone. lol I love that you are going to be able to let someone else help you and that you are not so burnt out you quit posting. Thank you for all you do for your followers.
I am so glad you are able to continue your blog with the help of your friend. Initially I did find your site through a giveaway but I kept coming back each day to read your blog. I enjoy your writing and the stories about your family. To Jennifer I look forward to reading your stories and reviews. I had no idea the amount of work that goes into a quality site so I can fully understand your need to take time away from it. Again I'm glad you will be continuing with your blog and we will be here to read it. Happy New Year to you and your family.:)
I'm thrilled to start this next chapter w/you! :)
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I was reading "Mom Blogging for Dummies" by Wendy Piersall (the dummies part fits, the 'Mom' part, not so much) the other days.
She has some interesting ideas on blog marketing, et c. I don't know enough about this type of blogging, (I need to find a 'mom' to explain it? LOL), but it seems to me some of these ideas would cut down on the actual time you spend 'working' on your blog, so you could do other things.
Maybe it is worthwhile checking it out? I like the thought of doing product reviews, but I don't want this to take over my retirement... (I don't know how Fab Grandma does it. Which ages me, I guess.)
Come summer, I would like to have developed a revenue stream, no matter how small, that didn't keep me off my ATV. (There are very few wifi hotspots and no cell services in the Paiutes...).
Like your blog, hope it works out for you...
Oh LeeAnn, as you know I love your blog :). I haven't commented as much as I should lately and I'm sorry. Sometimes life is so busy but I do read every personal post you write. I do love entering giveaways but most are not open to Canadians so often I just skim through. I'm so happy to see the direction in which your blog is going. I've also made many friends through Saturday Playdate and hope to see that return or something to that realm. I also completed the survey, this long winded response is just extra ;).
im so very happy for the both of you. I think this is an amazing chapter for Jenn and you are so amazing to give this gift to her!
I'm excited for you, LeeAnn! This sounds like such a great opportunity for both of you. Happy New Year to you!
We have talked about this before and you know how I feel. This blogging thing should not stress you out. It is supposed to be fun. If you can still manage to do reviews and giveaways with adding a writer, than I think that works. Try it and see what happens. It is your blog, there are no rules. But making time for your kids should be the most important thing. You cannot get that time back. Well, I will be here regardless and you know that :)
I am so happy that this announcement is this and not an "I quit!" - I was worried after a FB post a while back!
I'm here 99.9% for your personal posts - although you give away some cool stuff! When I first started reading, you were 80% personal posts and I loved it and over the last two years, you've really went away from personal stuff and I totally miss it!! You were the first blogger to ever take me under their wing and I'll forever appreciate you for it. I hope that even with taking on a team member, we'll still get to see some more Rylie and Bryce (and LeeAnn!) around here!
Oh, and if the two of you ever need some new blood to review Plasma cars or train things, I'm all in. HAHAHAHA (Sorry, couldn't resist!)
I think it's great that you're changing things up a bit. I feel that if we don't do what is best for us... then in the future it really won't help anyone out. I took your survey. I mainly come to your blog to read about your personal experiences. (Those are the types of blogs I prefer.) I like getting to know bloggers in addition to reviews/giveaways. Keep doing what you feel is right and I'm sure you'll be happy with the outcome. Have a safe and Happy New Year.
What a great solution, LeeAnn! It's a win/win for everyone!
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