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October 14, 2010

Rylie's First Sleepover

A couple weekends ago my friend (and next door neighbor) wanted to go out for her friend's birthday. Her husband was out of town so I offered to keep her son Cole overnight. Cole is one of Rylie's best friends. They used to go to school together, but since they live right next door they see each other all the time. They absolutely love each other and they always have a great time playing together!

When Cole came over they were both so excited! Cole didn't even seem to mind that his mom was leaving. We had a little dinner and then they played like crazy for a little while afterwards. Around 8:30 or so they got in their jammies and it was time to settle down and read a few books before going to bed.



After story time was over, we headed up to Rylie's room. Cole was going to sleep in his sleeping bag on the floor in her room. Those little stinkers took FOREVER to get to sleep! We have a video monitor in her room so we were watching all of their shenanigans. They were throwing stuffed animals at each other and giggling. At one point Rylie wanted to sleep on her sleeping bag so we got that out and set her up on the floor too. Next thing we knew they were in there smacking each other on the head and giggling some more. The silliness lasted for well over an hour. We were back and forth up there trying to get them to settle down. Finally we put Rylie back in her bed and told them if we heard one more peep out of them Cole wouldn't be able to spend the night again. That must have worked because it got quiet and stayed quiet.

The next morning we got up and had some breakfast and the kids played some more. Here they all are watching a movie.



They didn't sit still very long and decided to destroy my house instead. Hey, a messy house is a happy house, right? The kids had so much fun, and Rylie really enjoyed her first sleepover!

Now, my friends, I have to ask your opinion on this. I was telling a group of people at work about Rylie's sleepover with one of her friends that was a boy, and some of them were just appalled that I allowed him to sleep in her room. I honestly didn't think anything of it. He's three and she is two. Good grief. Can't kids be innocent for a while? Or am I just dumb? Do you see any issues with this? And if not, at what age do you think it becomes an issue? I would love to hear your thoughts!

10 comments:

Andrea said...

At age 2 and 3 I think it's totally fine! At 12 and 13, that'd be a different story, but right now they're still practically babies! Some people are just too uptight!

heather@actingbalanced.com said...

I have to agree with the previous commenter and you... under 6, kids really don't care about gender... and even then, not so much until puberty...

Colleen (Shibley Smiles) said...

Seriously? People thought that was shocking? I know when the boys were young right before kindergarten they had a girl friend from the neighborhood spend the night. Now at 13 and 10 that is a different story.

I think you are just fine, so exciting for Rylie. Glad she had a great time!

Midnite592 said...

Some people need to get over themselves. They're practically babies. And they probably slept better in Rylie's room than they would have in a more "traditional" sleepover space.

~Erin @ http://dreamingwithmidnite.com
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Carol said...

I am looking forward to these days - slumber parties and a house full of kids. I think it's fine, and I wouldn't have thought anything of it. Why are people trying to sexualize everything...they are toddlers! I would have given "those people" a big ole eye roll!

WeeMasonMan's Mom said...

Oh my gosh, I think the people you work with are ridiculous!! I think probably 9 or 10 is where it starts to get iffy, not 3!!!

Glad everyone survived the first sleepover. I love how Bryce and Rylie are sharing the chair during the movie!!

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Nina's Mama said...

Love the photos!

I'm super glad she enjoyed her first sleepover.

And I think it is crazy to think there is anything wrong with kids that age sleeping in the same room. Just plain wacky.

I hope this is the first of many fun sleepovers!

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Jennifer said...

Seems like the concensus is that it is totally fine...and I agree. They are still so little. What do people think is really going to happen? They had fun and that is all that they care about. They looked so cute in their jammies...I am sure they are going to be asking for another sleepover soon :)

Heather said...

I don't think it matters at this point. They'll think each other has cooties before you have to worry about anything! :o)

 
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